For the School Leader Who Is Holding It All Together
You don't have to figure
this out on your own.
If you are a school leader who is seeking more calm, clarity, and confidence
in your role, you're in exactly the right place.
The script for the conversation you never get time to plan for
Someone falls into step beside you on the way to the staffroom. They've got a problem. You've got sixty seconds before the bell. This short video and one-page guide show you exactly what to say.
- A four-question script you can use in the corridor today
- Two real scenarios so you can hear it in action
- A one-page guide to keep on your phone for next time
Completely free. No training, no meeting, no extra thing on your list.
Real support in the time you already have
- Short video, under ten minutes
- One-page script you can screenshot
- Works for behaviour, workload and colleague tension
You hold space for your whole school. Who holds it for you?
You're the one everyone comes to. The calm voice in the crisis, the person who remembers whose dad is unwell, the one still answering emails at 9pm.
Most of the leaders I work with are very good at their jobs. What they rarely get is somewhere to put it all down for an hour and think.
That's what I give you. Space to hear yourself think.
"I've sat in the chair you're sitting in. I know what it costs to hold everyone else together."
A former principal who now helps leaders lead with calm, clarity and confidence
I've spent over three decades in education, as a classroom teacher, a school leader and a principal, across New Zealand, the Pacific and Hong Kong.
I remember the Tuesday afternoons. Three things going wrong at once, someone in tears in my office, a board report due tomorrow. I was the person holding everyone together, and there was nobody holding me.
Now I coach school leaders, work with leadership teams, and support new teachers finding their feet. Different people, same belief. Nobody in a school should have to cope alone.
- Former principal
- ICF accredited coach (ACC)
- Master of Educational Administration
- Host of Dear School Leader
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First Year FoundationsKind words from people I've worked with
"I've gained so much more clarity"
Thank you so so much for everything you've done for me over the past two terms. I feel very lucky to have been paired with you and to have benefited from your expertise and experience. I've gained so much more clarity around some of my work habits and the advice and tips regarding working with challenging staff has been invaluable.
"I have improved my leadership style"
I started coaching with Carolyn to understand the practice of coaching and improve on these skills. Before beginning the coaching, I struggled with how to approach staff during difficult conversations. Carolyn guided me through individual sessions that helped me approach conversations more effectively and strengthen my relationships with others. Since finishing the coaching I have improved my leadership style.
"A happy and successful career"
Carolyn's coaching has enabled me to grow from a young beginning teacher to an experienced team leader. She suggested useful techniques and used self awareness strategies that allowed me to develop management skills. I learnt to prioritise my own wellbeing in order to be at my best. Teaching can be an extremely hard job, but coaching with Carolyn got me back on top of things.
"Coaching has changed my life"
I started coaching with Carolyn to think about my next steps in education, and about looking after my mental health and wellbeing. During the coaching I felt listened to, and was able to explore my next steps in a very different setting. Since finishing the coaching I have achieved clarity of thought, embarked on a health journey, and started a new job! I highly recommend this coaching.
"Confidence and a sense of calm"
Fresh out of university, the expectation of a teacher compared to the realities of a teacher was overwhelming at one stage. I was extremely thankful for Carolyn's coaching sessions, as they were invaluable for me as a beginning teacher. I left each session with a greater sense of clarity, confidence and a sense of calm. To this day, I continue to apply her philosophies to my everyday teaching practice.
"I was able to see in front of me again"
I found myself feeling lost and confused as to where I was heading. I felt silly at the start of the coaching process, because I don't like talking about myself or my feelings, but as the sessions went on I found this confidence building up inside. The sessions helped me to reflect and set realistic goals. I now know the pathway I want my career heading in.
Dear School Leader
Short, honest episodes for the drive to school. Like a letter from someone who's been where you are.
The next corridor moment is coming
Start with the free script. It takes ten minutes to learn and you'll use it before the week is out.
Send me the videoDoes this sound like you?
You start the day with good intentions… but feel overwhelmed or behind before the morning tea bell
You care deeply about your students and colleagues, yet your own energy feels stretched thin
You know leadership shouldn’t feel this draining… but you’re not sure how to make real, lasting change.
Choose the option that fits you and take your next step.
Start today with simple, proven steps designed for real school life because your wellbeing must come first when everyone’s counting on you.
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Hi, I'm Carolyn!
I help teachers, and school leaders reclaim calm and confidence by learning to care for themselves first, so they can continue caring for others without running on empty.
As a certified coach with over 30 years in education, I’ve supported hundreds of educators to build practical routines, strengthen their wellbeing, and feel more in control of their days.
I know the challenges firsthand and I bring both professional expertise and a compassionate approach to every conversation. My goal is to make self-care simple and doable, giving you the clarity, energy, and balance you need to thrive in your role and in your life.
Some kind words from amazing people I have worked with
"Confidence and a sense of calm"
"Fresh out of university and experiencing first hand, the expectation of a teacher compared to the realities of a teacher, was overwhelming at one stage.
I was extremely thankful for Carolyn’s coaching sessions, as they were invaluable for me as Beginning Teacher. Anyone who knows Carolyn is drawn to her kind-hearted nature, genuine concern for others and ability to make you feel valued as a teacher. Her holistic approach to teaching allowed me to leave each session with a greater sense of clarity, confidence and a sense of calm.
To this day, I continue to apply her philosophies to my everyday teaching practice."
Melanie Sadaraka
Classroom Teacher Y5/6
" I was able to see in front of me again"
"Before my coaching sessions I had recently returned from overseas travel and had just started teaching again. I found myself feeling lost and confused as to where I was heading or what I wanted to do with my life. I felt silly at the start of the coaching process, because I don't like talking about myself or my feelings, but as the sessions went on I found this confidence building up inside. I was able to see in front of me again.
The coaching sessions helped me to reflect and set realistic goals that I could achieve. The sessions made me feel good about myself. I now know the pathway I want my career heading in. Carolyn is an amazing person, who always makes you feel valued and comfortable."
Melissa Absolum
Classroom Teacher Y5/6
"A happy and successful career"
"Carolyn's coaching has enabled me to grow from a young beginning teacher to an experienced team leader.
Her holistic approach was exactly what I needed to develop into the confident teacher I am today. She suggested useful techniques and used self awareness strategies that allowed me to develop management skills. I learnt to prioritise my own well being in order to be at my best. Teaching can be an extremely hard job it can consume you and suck out all your energy but coaching with Carolyn got me back on top of things.
It is possible to have a happy and successful career in teaching."
Anna Casley
Team Leader Y3/4
"Coaching has changed my life"
"I started coaching with Carolyn to think about my next steps in education,and about looking after my mental health and wellbeing
Before starting the coaching I had challenges I was facing around having too many projects, and feelings of being stuck.
During the coaching I felt listened to, and was able to explore my next steps in a very different setting, which I really enjoyed! I loved how the new perspectives drew things out of me, even when I felt very vulnerable.
Since finishing the coaching I have achieved clarity of thought, embarked on a health journey, and started a new job!
I highly recommend this coaching. It has changed my life!
Vanessa Woodfield
Secondary Teacher
"I've gained so much more clarity "
Thank you so so much for everything you've done for me over the past two terms.
I feel very lucky to have been paired with you and to have benefited from your expertise and experience.
I've gained so much more clarity around some of my work habits and the advice and tips regarding working with challenging staff has been invaluable.
Natalie
Deputy Principal
"I have improved my leadership style"
My name is Sara. I am a school leader. I started coaching with Carolyn to understand the practice of coaching and improve on these skills.
Before beginning the coaching, I struggled with how to approach staff during difficult conversations. During the coaching, Carolyn guided me through individual sessions that helped me approach conversations more effectively and strengthen my relationships with others.
Since finishing the coaching I have improved my leadership style.
Sara
Deputy Principal
You don’t have to stay in survival mode. With a clear, simple plan you can reclaim calm and steady energy without adding more to your plate.
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